Vintage and antique engagement rings

The most sustainable and ethical choice

How to buy an engagement ring

Step 1: The planning phase

Modern couples choose antique engagement rings not just for their timeless appeal and beauty, but for ethical and sustainable reasons too. From the intricate Georgian era, romantic Victorian motifs, refined Edwardian elegance and the bold geometry of Art Deco, you have plenty of options.

Finding your partner's ring size without revealing your intentions can be tricky. You can measure one of their existing rings using a sizing guide, bring it to a jeweler, or ask a friend or family member. And remember resizing is an option for many rings.

Budget is also key. The average engagement ring in the UK costs around £2,000, but spending less or more is equally valid.

How to buy an engagement ring

Step 2: Practical questions

Think about your partner’s preferences and lifestyle. Do they gravitate toward specific gemstones or particular metals?

Setting and design need to take account of aesthetics AND practicality. Choose a harder stone like a diamond, sapphire, or ruby for daily wear. And an active person might benefit from a secure, low-profile setting to prevent damage. Protective designs like collet settings can also shield stones from impact.

Gem size is largely a matter of taste and budget. Smaller stones suit subtle styles, while larger stones make bold statements. The cut and setting also change how a stone’s size is perceived.

Step 3: Styles and metals

Classic solitaire rings focus on simplicity and elegance, while toi-et-moi rings symbolize unity. Three-stone rings highlight past, present, and future, making them a romantic choice. For vintage charm, consider five-stone or cluster rings (the latter provide added protection for softer stones like emeralds).

Metal choice is mostly a matter of taste so think about your partner's current rings.

Pick an engagement ring style

Step 4: Choose a gemstone

Diamonds are the most popular choice for engagement rings but other gems are more colourful and increasingly popular.

Sapphires come in various hues, while emeralds provide a rich green but demand delicate handling. Rubies, in shades from pink to deep red, exude passion and elegance.

Less common choices include aquamarine, garnet, topaz and zircon.

Step 5: Choose an era

Choices include the intricate Georgian era, romantic Victorian motifs, refined Edwardian elegance and the bold geometry of Art Deco.

Georgian (1714 - 1830): Characterised by early cut stones such as old mine, rose and table cut diamonds, along with foil-backed gemstones
Victorian (1837 - 1901): Often set with cameos and intaglios, with beautiful five-stone rings and rare gemstones aplenty.
Edwardian (1901 - 1915): This era saw the birth of platinum jewellery. Expect delicate, ornate designs (think laurel wreaths and bows).
Art Deco (1915 - 1945): Clean, geometric designs and new stone cuts that are as fresh now as they were in the 1920s.

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